Dear God are you still at this? Why aren't you suspended yet? Why haven't you been laid off or fired yet? Who do you know? Who's your Godfather? I've got your number, you can take any amount of stuff off your buds... dudes (doubt you get much off the fair sex) who meet your standards of physical attractiveness. You envy The Jerk's intelligence but you are turned off by his physical disrepair. So you came here to kvetch about him getting the drop on you in some innocent banter. Fair enough... but six pages? The BF servers have only so much space for this drivel. Can we shut this down now? You've had your little rant. You've received some good feedback. Lessons there if you want to learn them. I suspect not. No matter. It will all work itself out. Peace.