Originally Posted by
bikebike3
. . . when I inflate it, the patch doesn't stretch with the tube and then the sides of the patches peel up. . .
That seems like poor preparation of the area to be patched or poor technique.
Did you ever find and remove the cause of the original puncture? How is the patch leaking -- from a new puncture or from around the edges or some other way?
Find and follow a good patching procedure from a reliable source. Properly installed patches are permanent.