I was reading another thread of yours and you just happened to mention "Rowan's accident" so I clicked the link and have spent about the last hour reading this thread. Kudos to you for staying on this long hard road with Rowan while staying sane and upbeat. This has been a very gratifying and inspiring read. I'm sure there must have been some significant lows in this journey but the story arc appears to be moving steadily upwards. Rowan is very lucky to have you as a life partner. My best to both of you.