Hi,
I don't know if this is ideal; it's just what I have been using. This is a product made right here in Maine, it's called Mad Gab's Elephant Lube.
It's made of....Olive Oil, Almond oil,Beeswax, Shea Butter, Vitamin E oil, and "other essential oils'. It is really soothing stuff.

http://www.madgabs.com/


What the heck is Shea butter?