Originally Posted by
bruce19
To be clear.....my comment was not meant to be a criticism, just a statement of fact.
Understood.
My wife grew up in an environment where she was taught that people in the world would judge her - clothes, appearance, behavior, etc. That mentality (programming, if you will) has been really difficult to put behind her, and has been a hinderance for her in many ways. I agree with you 100% that a lot of it is a waste of time and energy. I think we did a decent job not passing it on to our kids, thankfully.
__________________
RIP 01/08/25...2022 Trek Supercaliber, 2018 Storck Fascenario.3 Platinum, 2018 Trek Procaliber SL Singlespeed, 2017 Bear BR1, 2003 Time VX Special Pro, 2001 Colnago VIP, 1999 Trek 9900 singlespeed, 1977 Nishiki ONP