I think many (most?) people in western civilization want too much from their spouse.

I told my dad, “You complain that your wife doesn’t have a job, but you totally rely on her to keep the house up, pick up after you, etc. You probably can’t have both.”

Sexual partner.
Best buddy.
Taxi driver for the kids.
cook.
maid.
provider.
workout partner.

WTF. Pick 2 or 3, not everything at once unless you enjoy being let down by your own expectations.