not that i'm a huge fan of the 12-point socket, but have you tried one in the size needed? It might go over your 4 sided tool.
+1 on the PB Blaster...it is a better penetrating oil than WD40.
also, and this might sound like a silly question, are you turning everthing the correct way?
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