There are many wheel builders out there. I have heard that Excel does a great job. You could do worse. All of the hubs that they have which you listed will work with your cassette. Just specify Shimano.
Light and Durable are set so Cheap is out the window. Others on here will have great recomendations. I would just end up sticking you with a DT RR rims, DT Comp 2.0-1.8-2.0 spokes, 28 rear 3X, 24 front 2X.
For hubs...pick whichever is in your price range. All that you mention are great hubs. Stay away from CK hubs if you dislike noise pollution.