Originally Posted by chipcom
Where did I say it was a bike ride? I met her for dinner and a movie, I got to the restaurant early and used their restroom the clean up. I didn't let lame excuses stop me from doing what I really wanted to do. IMO your problem is that you already had your mind made up and don't want to overcome your obstacles. You've gotten lots of suggestions here, but you really didn't want them, you just wanted some shoulders to cry on and tell you it's OK. It is OK, but that don't mean I ain't gonna tell you what I think. If you want only yes-man answers, please let us know in the subject line.
I do appreciate the input I got from smart people that know how to relate to the rest of the world. Closed mindedness like yours doesn't translate online. I'm glad I gave you a place to vent your internet frustrations though! I'll be taking off in a bit and biking everywhere until next morning. I'm sorry that on Monday morning I'll jump into my car and drive to work, but that's just the way it is. Please don't take it personally, I'm not trying to hurt you.