I'd agree with the above statement. My carbon fibre bike is expensive to fix and chances are should I crash the frame is likely toasted. I can't afford another. More important, crashes hurt, it takes time to recover, one could loose a whole season due to a newb not being able to handle his/her bike.

I'm plan to try my hand at racing later this year but fully intended to prepare with many months riding with a group to ensure my saftey and that of others. I'm pretty good in terms of strength and endurance but definately need some tighten on the close quarter riding skills.

While there is ego and those just wanting to look "cool" types in cycling, there are many more great riders willing to help if asked. These "Dealing with elitists" statement seems to be more like a "I need to be loved"..... Suck it up and get back out there !