It's going to take some patience. Asking good questions is the key. Instead of just saying "Hey, I'm building a bike! I suck!" Ask one specific question at a time and spend some time reviewing old threads. Don't get me wrong, we are pumped that you are building a bike, and look forward to a day when you dont suck, but we are all building bikes too, and often our information spills over onto the forums in a searchable manner.