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Originally Posted by jfowler85
(Post 17858530)
Ah man, I expected an argument out of this, good on you. I suspect you are right on count 1, on count 2 you are also right but the context of the discussion is turning right. If the person blocking you from turning right is honestly not aware that you are behind them, do you really consider that person a dick?
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Originally Posted by FBinNY
(Post 17858478)
I hope this is just a question of poor phrasing, and the intent is that no one has an obligation to accommodate you and not that we have a responsibility to be willfully spiteful all the time.
Originally Posted by FBinNY
(Post 17858478)
If you're standing in a line that runs past a door, and someone comes by wanting to enter, he gives you the nod, or says "excuse me" and people adjust so he can get past.
You are comparing two very different contexts, i.e. on instance occurs with those involved inside vehicles and the other they are not. People don't need to be polite on the road, they need to follow the rules and realize that even if they were to get ahead by 1 minute at intersection a, they will probably just end up stopping at intersection b or c, so the extra time gained is for naught. At a busy 3 or 4 way intersection, things can get hairy when some joker starts waiving people through out-of-turn. When I am involved, I put my foot on the ground and make sure that those ahead of me go ahead of me. It is not the responsibility of the first arriver at that intersection to accommodate anyone, it is his job to follow the rules. Just like the person waiting at the head of the right turn lane; it is not his responsibility to accommodate anyone, it is his job to follow the rules. Things tend to work smoothly when people just shut up and follow the rules. |
in NYC there is no right on red, it's not allowed. there's a space between the cars going straight and the crosswalk that cyclists can move into. they are directly in front of cars going straight and have right of way once the light turns green. in general, we try not to get left hooked or right hooked, there's a "mixing zone" we share with cars to avoid that. but if the lane is on the right, there is usually no safe place to move - no car has ever asked me to move and if they did i would probably say no, there's typically no safe way of executing such a move. they usually yield and wait for me to go before making their right turn. hope this helps clarify what happens in NYC.
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Originally Posted by jfowler85
(Post 17858608)
....People don't need to be polite on the road, they need to follow the rules....
You clearly feel no obligation to do so, and I agree that there's no obligation, but I do so anyway because it's the way I am. Sometimes it's not about finding a reason why, but not finding a reason why not. |
Originally Posted by Ray Lovinggood
(Post 17856360)
More info from the OP...
There is no room to move to the right of the lane to allow a car to go around my left side then turn right in front of me. The lanes are not standard 12' width and appear to be 10' in width. There is no room to move to the left of the lane and allow the car to go around my right side, unless the driver drives up onto the sidewalk. I can't pull ahead of the white stop bar because cars making a left turn in front of me would run me over. They come pretty close as it is right now, and I'm behind the stop bar. So, there's nowhere for me to go, except onto the adjacent sidewalk, or the adjacent lane, which would put me in a place to get plowed over by oncoming traffic. I'm not going on the sidewalk. Any traffic behind me will just have to wait, the same as I'm doing. But there's only so much you can do with some intersections -- I think you set yourself up to look like a dick in this thread by leaving details out of your OP. ;) |
If I'm at the front waiting for a light, I'm in the left-hand side of the lane anyway. Sometimes there's room for right-turners, sometimes not. I've never been asked to move over.
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Originally Posted by jfowler85
(Post 17858608)
People don't need to be polite on the road, they need to follow the rules
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Originally Posted by jfowler85
(Post 17858608)
People don't need to be polite on the road, they need to follow the rules...
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Originally Posted by gpburdell
(Post 17858740)
... and that attitude right there is part of the problems on today's roads. The fireworks ensue when someone like this gets tangled up with someone else's "F-U, I'll do what I want" attitude. Sometimes leading to tragic results such as Woman Accused of Running Down Navy Chief Petty Officer in Road Rage Killing: CHP | NBC 7 San Diego
Originally Posted by RubeRad
(Post 17858845)
And, there's the end of the discussion. If that's the foundation of your (and OP's) approach to cycle-commuting (and shared use of roads in general), then all other 'discussion' of details is merely talking past each other.
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Originally Posted by RubeRad
(Post 17858474)
So you would rather the global warming gas spewing asshat sit at the light longer and spew more gas and warm more globe?
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Originally Posted by Mr IGH
(Post 17858906)
Quite frankly, I couldn't care less about them one way or the other, they need to wait their turn. I don't need to take risks to save them a few minutes, sorry....
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Originally Posted by FBinNY
(Post 17858645)
This sums up your attitude very succinctly. If you remember the original issue, it related to moving over (or forward) so a car behind you could make a right turn. This isn't a question of unnecessarily stopping to waive someone through an intersection, which I agree might create problems. This is a simple question of extending a fellow road user a courtesy at no expense to yourself or any other road users.
You clearly feel no obligation to do so, and I agree that there's no obligation, but I do so anyway because it's the way I am. Sometimes it's not about finding a reason why, but not finding a reason why not. Let me boil it down for you, because you are having trouble going back through previous posts: it is dumb for you (hypothetical) to get pissed at someone else who doesn't extend you a courtesy when they are under no obligation to do so. Generally, when everyone just shuts up and follows the rules, these things tend to work themselves out. I am guessing that, in intersections with such a design which accommodates this example, the local statues regulating traffic would mandate that drivers do 2 things: 1) not ride the curb and 2) pull all the way up to the front of the intersection when waiting for a light. This would obviously allow a cyclist to pass, and in the case of there being a turning lane, this would give room for those to merge into said turning lane. No courtesies needed if everyone just follows the rules. I say this for purpose of illustration, not to be taken as a literal example. However, this is all general and hypothetical, written as a response to those who feel entitled to courtesy from everyone else around them on the road; I do not reply these things as a matter of demonstrating my own actions on the road. Since you think I am so against extending courtesy to others, then what the hell was I thinking earlier this week when I pulled over, got out of my vehicle, and jogged across a small parking lot to let a departing car know that he had a very low tire? When I leave work, I often see a single amputee, wheelchair-bound veteran who, for all intents and purposes lives at the hospital, is usually on his way to have a smoke outside. One of the few enjoyable things he has left in his life. Before the next time I offer to push him out to the smoke shack and give him some friendly conversation like I usually do, you might want to let him know that I'm actually a fraud/******* who doesn't believe in giving courtesy to others. |
Originally Posted by RubeRad
(Post 17858948)
How is scooting to the left of the same lane while stopped at a red light a risk?
Again, what's the big deal waiting for the next cycle? BTW, now that I live in a polite community (instead of Chicago) it's never an issue, drivers just wait their turn, as they should. |
Originally Posted by Mr IGH
(Post 17858317)
Oh, the humanity! What is the big deal about having to wait? If I was in my car they'd have to wait. I'm on my bike, so the cager has to wait, boo hoo! I'm not risking my life for a global warming gas spewing asshat's convenience.
As I've gotten older I've learned that I make myself happier when I am kind and courteous to other people. If I can be nice to someone at no inconvenience to myself, why wouldn't I do so? I do it for me as well as for them. Peace, out. |
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Originally Posted by jfowler85
(Post 17858858)
You're making my point for me. Were the rules followed? Nope. You are erroneously assuming that I take the opposite end of the argument being made, when in fact I mean to take the middle ground of neutrality.
I do agree that politeness ought not to be taken to the extreme of inconveniencing others and/or sowing confusion and thereby decreasing safety. Whatever vehicle I'm using, I always figure we're all trying to get somewhere as soon as we can, so let's work together to achieve that goal safely. |
Originally Posted by jfowler85
(Post 17858968)
You are assuming I feel that way, although I will grant you that it is an assumption easily made. My comments are in response to those in this thread who express discontent when someone does not let them through.
Let me boil it down for you, because you are having trouble going back through previous posts: it is dumb for you (hypothetical) to get pissed at someone else who doesn't extend you a courtesy when they are under no obligation to do so. .... I treat all my fellow road users as I might treat my aunt (my mother's hypothetical sister, who has a big mouth and enjoys showing up my mother -- "I can't believe how rudely YOUR son treated me....". As I said earlier, when situations like this occur, I'm more often driven by the question "why not?" So now that you made a point that you're a nice guy, and that you have no obligation to do so, maybe you'll answer the original question. What if someone at a light asked you to move over so he could slide by and make a legal right on red. The OP said he always refuses, what would you do? BTW- I might point out that this is the commuter thread, and commuting has unique aspects unlike most cycling. One of those is that we tend to share the road with the same people daily, same bus, police, UPS/Fedex drivers, and many of the same motorists on a regular basis. After 5 years riding the same routes at roughly the same times I know the cops, school crossing guards, and many of the regular drivers I see on my route. That's an important distinction because it mean I can ride surrounded by friends or enemies. If I stop to fix a flat, people will stop, ask if I'm OK and offer a lift. To show how well a bicycle commuter can be known in his area, when I'm walking, some drivers will slow and ask "where's the bike today?" or something to that effect and offer me a lift. |
Originally Posted by jimincalif
(Post 17858996)
So much anger. And using such terms conveniently depersonalizes the driver, who could be anybody and in a different setting might be your best friend...Peace, out.
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Originally Posted by FBinNY
(Post 17859159)
So now that you made a point that you're a nice guy, and that you have no obligation to do so, maybe you'll answer the original question. What if someone at a light asked you to move over so he could slide by and make a legal right on red. The OP said he always refuses, what would you do? When there is no right turn lane, I generally move way up to the front which tends to give enough room for those behind me to turn right. Occasionally, for varied reasons, I sit on the curb which blocks right-turners. Most commonly I am hitting the crosswalk button and a driver pulls up behind me. It's awkward to reposition within the intersection in this circumstance, so there I wait, and overall no gets pissed, although one of those blocked right-turners probably went home, complained to the wife/husband, then got on bf to complain about me being a dick. |
Originally Posted by ClarkinHawaii
(Post 17859001)
Trolling helps me pass time at work
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Originally Posted by jfowler85
(Post 17860286)
;)
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I make room if it's safe to do so.
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Originally Posted by FBinNY
(Post 17859159)
...BTW- I might point out that this is the commuter thread, and commuting has unique aspects unlike most cycling. One of those is that we tend to share the road with the same people daily, same bus, police, UPS/Fedex drivers, and many of the same motorists on a regular basis. After 5 years riding the same routes at roughly the same times I know the cops, school crossing guards, and many of the regular drivers I see on my route.
That's an important distinction because it mean I can ride surrounded by friends or enemies.... |
Originally Posted by Jim from Boston
(Post 17861375)
I once read a piece of advice on a Forum, that the closer you get to work, the less likely you should cuss out motorists, since it might be a co-worker (or Boss :eek:).
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Originally Posted by tjspiel
(Post 17855771)
Yes, if I see a car behind me with a turn signal on and I have room, I'll just move over. Have had people roll down their windows to thank me or just wave. It's a small thing but I feel good about doing it.
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Originally Posted by metz1295
(Post 17862095)
This is my POV. I move will to the left and give them room to turn while still holding the lane for when I ride through the intersection. I've received many "Thanks" from drivers. I look at it strengthening the relationship between drivers and riders. Maybe next time that driver comes up on a bike they slow down a little more. If I don't give a little, maybe they squeeze out a rider if the lane is tight instead of waiting till more room is available.
If you make room, drivers learn the lesson "Cyclists (at least some of them) are considerate and do not just clog up 'my' roads". If you don't make room, drivers do not learn the lesson "Oh, I guess I should just wait", instead they learn the lesson "Cyclists are a$$holes that annoy me and slow everybody down". Next time they have to make a judgment call of whether to speed up to turn right in front of a cyclist (or whether their current speed is sufficient to turn right in front of a cyclist), vs slowing down to turn right behind... |
I used to be pretty hard nosed when it came to demanding my right to the lane, but I've noticed that good will toward drivers goes a long way, especially if you're on a route where you'll encounter the same drivers every day. If I see a car pull up behind me with its right turn signal on, I'll usually get off my bike, pick it up and move it the four or five feet to the left the car needs to turn. A grateful smile beats a menacing look any day as far as I'm concerned.
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Just ignore the fact that it makes things easier for other people. Setting up on the left side of the right-most lane makes it easier and safer for you. You are out of the way of the jerk who is going to try to squeeze past to make a right no matter what, and it removes any ambiguity about whether you're going straight or right. So there, just do it for your own selfish reasons that also just happen to make things safer, more efficient, and spread a little goodwill.
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Originally Posted by Ray Lovinggood
(Post 17856360)
There is no room to move to the right of the lane to allow a car to go around my left side then turn right in front of me.
Originally Posted by ThermionicScott
(Post 17858668)
That would be stupid anyway.
There are only two kinds of right lane at an intersection: a right turn only lane, and a regular right lane for either straight through or right turn. If it is a right turn only lane and you as cyclist do not intend to turn right, you have no business in that lane, so we don't need to discuss that situation any further. In even liberal cycle friendly cities like Portland, the rule is that cyclists stay to the right of other traffic. When you are at the corner waiting to go straight through you will be at the right side of the lane. If you wave a car by to turn right he will pass by on your left and turn across you while the light is still red. He cannot right hook you unless you are actually forward of the intersection and in the path of crossing traffic. Why would you be there? If he is pulling a long trailer that narrows the distance as he turns you should have noticed that! I (and others) have also learned to stop a couple of car lengths short of the corner which sends a clear message to traffic in the right lane that you do not intend to turn right and so they should pass you on your left and do what they have to do. It's simple, and works well. Anything else is non-standard and causes confusion. Some cyclists revel in all the confusion, contention and cussedness that they can cause. |
Originally Posted by Leisesturm
(Post 17862480)
Moving to the left side of a lane so cars can pass on your right confuses them, annoys them, angers them. In the best case they simply won't do it. They will simply sit and stare. If that's what you want, fine, but don't think you are helping anyone out when you go against convention.
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