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Old 02-22-16 | 11:38 AM
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I blew it. It is just too dam late for me to grow up now. I may grow old but not up. In December on the eve of my 70th I bought a fat bike....now I just have to ride in the winter
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Old 02-24-16 | 06:49 PM
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I usta be immature. Now, I'm just really young for my age.
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Old 02-24-16 | 07:28 PM
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Old 02-24-16 | 07:57 PM
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I would like to produce a website called Modern Immaturity, as a take-off of the magazine Modern Maturity.
I feel that maturity is over-rated, in any event.

Agreed. You're only young once but you can be immature forever. Personally I try not to make any concessions to age. That being said I've had to adapt to various orthopedic and health issues to keep on keeping on. Can't run anymore but thankfully I can cycle hard and long enough to scratch my itch.
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Old 02-24-16 | 08:18 PM
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I would like to produce a website called Modern Immaturity, as a take-off of the magazine Modern Maturity.
I feel that maturity is over-rated, in any event.

Agreed. You're only young once but you can be immature forever. Personally I try not to make any concessions to age. That being said I've had to adapt to various orthopedic and health issues to keep on keeping on. Can't run anymore but thankfully I can cycle hard and long enough to scratch my itch.
I guess I've said this before, but it bears repeating: When I hop on my bicycle after work, I become an 8 year-old boy in a 52 year-old body. My cares melt away with each stroke of the pedals, and a sense of adventure takes hold. I can ride like that for hours; exploring, taking photos, stopping for ice cream... Maturity is for old people. Borrowing an aphorism from the motorcycle folks: You don't stop riding when you get old - You get old when you stop riding.
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Old 02-24-16 | 08:18 PM
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Old 02-24-16 | 08:25 PM
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When I roll out on the beach time slows and the horizon disappears.

Oh yeah. That is a wonderful photo. I would print that up and hang it on a wall, for inspiration when you're not riding.
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Old 02-24-16 | 08:42 PM
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Old 02-24-16 | 08:49 PM
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I dunno, I'm 54, and haven't really felt the need to grow up yet. I seem to be gradually growing older though, I just can't seem to get around that. But it's mostly just about hair, either losing it or over-growing it, so nothing to get stressed over.
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Old 02-24-16 | 08:52 PM
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Originally Posted by bruce19
I'm maintaining my immaturity.
Just today, I came upon this previous exchange:

Originally Posted by JanMM
Bicycling keeps me immature......in a good way.

Originally Posted by Jim from Boston
My cycling lifestyle in many ways makes me feel somewhat “alienated” (“immature”) in a good way from the usual American car-focused lifestyle, and I’m grateful for that…
My most reflective (to me) post about cycling and living was this one:

Originally Posted by Jim from Boston
Several years ago, I had lunch with a couple of MD's and the discussion turned to the vissicitudes of life, such as sudden death, and trivial symptoms that are a harbinger of a serious disease. The conclusion of our conversation was that old chestnut to live life every day to the fullest.

As we were leaving, the surgeon, a marathon runner said, "Well, any day with a run in it is a good day for me." I was already a serious cyclist for many years, but it suddenly clicked for me; any day with a ride in it is a good day for me.

Ever since then, I make a definite effort to ride my bike every day
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Oh yeah. That is a wonderful photo. I would print that up and hang it on a wall, for inspiration when you're not riding.
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Never give up. Never grow up. Just say yes to life. Did 40' of one-legged pedaling intervals on my rollers yesterday, then went to the gym and lifted heavy. Today I skied 26,000' of vertical. Tomorrow it's back on the rollers for an hour, then lifting for PRs. Saturday we might ride a century on our tandem, team age 136. Yeah, by the middle of next week we'll be fried, which is good.
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Old 02-25-16 | 12:28 AM
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As to immaturity. There's an old saying.....He who lives with a child has a Zen master in the house. This is the immaturity to which I aspire.
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Old 02-25-16 | 02:55 AM
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I try not to spend too much time in the company of other old farts talking about (not) getting old.
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Originally Posted by ltxi
Folk my age, 73, are for the most part a drag.
And this.

Burbling on about how old one is and how things used to be is a sure sign that one is becoming a bore.
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Old 02-25-16 | 05:27 AM
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Old 02-25-16 | 07:01 AM
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Burbling on about how old one is and how things used to be is a sure sign that one is becoming a bore.

I take a slightly different view.

Sometimes old people talk of their past with a lot of laughter, and because they've led very interesting lives. Nothing wrong with that.

I believe that boring old men (or women), were boring young people who have just grown old.
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Old 02-25-16 | 08:10 AM
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I take a slightly different view.

Sometimes old people talk of their past with a lot of laughter, and because they've led very interesting lives. Nothing wrong with that.

I believe that boring old men (or women), were boring young people who have just grown old.
I agree. My past exists to be an example to me. As being completely sober since April 5, 1981 without so much as a sip of alcohol or a single toke, I give thanks to God. This morning I give a motivational classroom study on staying sober to a group of teen addicts in recovery. My past life serves as a sign of hope to them. Boring? I cant afford to be boring with this bunch.
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At 54 (...almost 55) I still think I can do things like I used to when I was 25. But my body ends up hollering at me afterwards!

With regards to the older crowd (I'm talking about guys pushing 80, who could almost pass as a father figure to me), I see some who are walking with a cane, or using a walker, and sadly some are in assisted living centers. NO WAY would I want to end up like that! I aim to fight the aging process tooth and nail for as long as I can! There is only one guy I know of (also a member of my Masonic lodge) who is 78 years old, in great shape, and he and his wife both work out at the local Y every few days. That's the way to be, if you ask me!
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I see some who are walking with a cane, or using a walker, and sadly some are in assisted living centers. NO WAY would I want to end up like that!
You're making unwarranted assumptions here. Bodies fail. Minds fail. Not always in sync. Consider that these old folks you see walking with canes and walkers are actually out in the world, despite the pain (or whatever else) drove them to adopt they assistance they use.

And they're not at the end yet. We tend not to see that part of other peoples' lives.
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Old 02-25-16 | 06:54 PM
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I take a slightly different view.

Sometimes old people talk of their past with a lot of laughter, and because they've led very interesting lives. Nothing wrong with that.

I believe that boring old men (or women), were boring young people who have just grown old.
Oh, yeah....well said good observation. I like it.
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Old 02-25-16 | 08:40 PM
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You don't stop riding because you get old. You get old when you stop riding.

My wife, my bikes and my dogs keep me young.
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Originally Posted by philbob57
You're making unwarranted assumptions here. Bodies fail. Minds fail. Not always in sync. Consider that these old folks you see walking with canes and walkers are actually out in the world, despite the pain (or whatever else) drove them to adopt they assistance they use.

And they're not at the end yet. We tend not to see that part of other peoples' lives.
Sorry if that came across the wrong way...

I just hope I'm still healthy and active 30 years from now (I'd be almost 85!), and hopefully still riding a bike!
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