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delbiker1 01-04-24 03:54 PM

This hurts
 
My twin sister, Kathy (I am Ken), had a stroke the night of 12/31-1/1, and passed the 2nd. I had just returned to Delaware the 28th, from Illinois, after spending Christmas week with my siblings and families.

I am still kind of in shock and heading back to Illinois in the morning. I am thankful I saw her during the holiday, she visited me for a week this past summer, and we spent our 70th birthday together in September of ‘22.

john m flores 01-04-24 03:56 PM

Oh, so sorry. Losing a sibling is hard. I can't imagine what losing a twin is like...Condolences to family and friends.

gthomson 01-04-24 03:57 PM

Sorry to hear of your loss and not a nice way to start 2024. I hope the year gets better for you and your sister is well remembered by those who knew her.

plumberroy 01-04-24 04:07 PM

Praying for you and your family sorry for your loss

terrymorse 01-04-24 04:17 PM

So sorry for your loss. I lost a sister and brother in 2023, it leaves a hole in your heart.

BTinNYC 01-04-24 04:32 PM

My condolences.

marko_1111 01-04-24 05:34 PM

So very sorry. I lost my last of two sisters year before last - one biological and one adopted but neither a twin. Just brutal

All the best to you and yours

50PlusCycling 01-04-24 05:43 PM

Loss is one of the things we have to suffer in life. My brother came to spend a week with me some years back, he borrowed my bike to go buy something at the store, and never came back. He was run over by a speeding vehicle driven by an unlicensed and uninsured driver. The only thing recognizable on his remains was a tattoo he had on his arm.

jadmt 01-04-24 06:27 PM

sorry for your loss. hopefully you and your family can find peace.

Champlaincycler 01-04-24 06:39 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss. I also have a twin sister. Oddly my mother gave birth to 3 Sets of twins way before fertlity drugs.
The loss of brothers and sisters is so very hard. You mourn the passing of a loved one and reckon with your own longevity. I hope you find the strength to get through this, maybe give some thanks that her passing was quick although still a great loss.
All the best.Get a ride in if you can find the time, good for inflection.

Alan K 01-04-24 07:17 PM

Very sorry for your loss, I can’t imagine how rough it must be.

big john 01-04-24 09:33 PM

Sorry delbiker1. Good that you got a chance to see her.

Eyes Roll 01-04-24 09:42 PM

Rest In Peace, Kathy.

I am sorry for your loss, Ken. May you find strength in these difficult times, bestowed upon you by a higher power.

JoeyBike 01-04-24 10:01 PM


Originally Posted by delbiker1 (Post 23119548)
My twin sister, Kathy... passed the 2nd.

If you're anything like me, you'll never get over it. My baby sister Patricia fell asleep at the wheel more than 25 years ago. She was a great touring buddy and your story made me think about her, which is a good thing.

Kathy will stay alive in your memories I bet. Next best thing to having her here. Cheers.

https://cimg3.ibsrv.net/gimg/bikefor...b46fe5f4ed.jpg
Patricia somewhere in Mississippi on Hwy 51.

zandoval 01-04-24 10:06 PM

Hold her close...
Never let her go...

gevad 01-05-24 09:20 AM

I’m so sorry for your loss. May her memory be a blessing.

Dave

Bald Paul 01-05-24 09:46 AM

Sorry for your loss.

Iride01 01-05-24 10:04 AM

My condolences too. It's an issue all of us with sibs share or will share at various levels of circumstance.

On my rides I think about things I've read here on BF. I'm sure others here too will be thinking about you as we pondering life during our rides today or in the near future.

RChung 01-05-24 12:08 PM

Sorry to hear this. Condolences to all her family and friends. May her memory be a blessing.

nlerner 01-05-24 05:22 PM

Oh, that's really sad, Ken. My condolences to you and your family.

Chuck Naill 01-05-24 05:37 PM


Originally Posted by delbiker1 (Post 23119548)
My twin sister, Kathy (I am Ken), had a stroke the night of 12/31-1/1, and passed the 2nd. I had just returned to Delaware the 28th, from Illinois, after spending Christmas week with my siblings and families.

I am still kind of in shock and heading back to Illinois in the morning. I am thankful I saw her during the holiday, she visited me for a week this past summer, and we spent our 70th birthday together in September of ‘22.

Cannot imagine, but my sincere condolences. I have twin grandchildren and I have always been drawn to how close they are with each other.

dennis336 01-05-24 09:56 PM

I am so sorry, My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Indyracer 01-05-24 10:04 PM

Very sorry to hear. My condolences

easyupbug 01-06-24 08:12 AM

My deepest sympathies for the loss of your twin.

BobbyG 01-06-24 08:52 AM

Adding my condolences.

Fredo76 01-06-24 04:31 PM

Love hurts.

Sorry to read of your sister's passing.

fat biker 01-06-24 04:40 PM

Very sorry for your loss.
Treasure the memories.

flan48 01-07-24 12:13 PM


Originally Posted by delbiker1 (Post 23119548)
My twin sister, Kathy (I am Ken), had a stroke the night of 12/31-1/1, and passed the 2nd. I had just returned to Delaware the 28th, from Illinois, after spending Christmas week with my siblings and families.

I am still kind of in shock and heading back to Illinois in the morning. I am thankful I saw her during the holiday, she visited me for a week this past summer, and we spent our 70th birthday together in September of ‘22.

I'm so, so sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace and may you have great memories of her.

Best regards

awac 01-07-24 03:22 PM


Originally Posted by 50PlusCycling (Post 23119672)
Loss is one of the things we have to suffer in life. My brother came to spend a week with me some years back, he borrowed my bike to go buy something at the store, and never came back. He was run over by a speeding vehicle driven by an unlicensed and uninsured driver. The only thing recognizable on his remains was a tattoo he had on his arm.

Jeez, that brought memory's back. 20+ years ago I had to identify my stepdad by a tattoo he had in the Navy after he had been trapped in a river weir for 3 months, not a pleasant task, and he was such a lovely person.
The point for delbiker1 is, I still think about him and talk to him. When someone is taken from you physically they remain alive with you.

delbiker1 01-08-24 03:23 PM

Thanks to all for the thoughts and well wishes. Going through some pictures and found this in the bottom, my twin and I at maybe 3
https://cimg3.ibsrv.net/gimg/bikefor...01185d7dc.jpeg


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