I don't know that I'd recommend taking in all the bike clothes you can't get the stink out of, though.

Here's hoping that Rowan will continue to improve, and praying for strength for Machka.

Hey, I kind of like that idea. Cycling was a big part of his life. I wonder if some sort of scent (chain lube?) associated with bikes would be a good trigger?

I don't "belong" in 50+ but I've been checking on this thread pretty much every day since hearing of the accident. Though not the praying type, I'm pulling for you two.

Since last time I posted ...
• Rowan really seems to recognise me now!
• He is eating and drinking. Just liquids and purees at this point, but it’s eating.
• He has dexterity in his hands. He can use a spoon. He also popped the top off his custard container, holds his teacup, unscrews the top off his water and juice bottles and screws them back on again. They told me he'd have to relearn all that stuff, but nope ... he just knows.
• He has reasonable core strength and is able to sit on the edge of his bed without support now, and physio is getting him to stand too.
• He appears to remember the music I play, and wiggles his feet or taps his fingers to the beat.
• He’s got his sense of humour.
• He talks! A lot!
• He is regaining long-term memories in bits and pieces.


And regarding cycling ... I told physio that we're into cycling so they found one of those under-desk pedal things and got him to do a bit of that. While he was doing that, they asked him what kind of cycling he does: mountain biking or road. "Road" he said.


There are still a number of challenges. He tires very quickly which they say is normal. He's still reconnecting past memories, vocabulary, etc. which is a bit of a bumpy road, and he's still in PTA because he has limited short-term memory.

But one step at a time ... and yesterday I told him that, and then asked him "How do you eat an elephant?" He surprised me by replying, "One bite at a time".

That's how we approach our long distance rides, and we say that to each other when the going gets challenging. In fact, the first time I came across that saying was when I was preparing for the Paris-Brest-Paris in 2003. I read the following article ... and I think he read it too.

"Eating an Elephant" by Ron Himschoot

So ... we're "eating an elephant" here.

KEEP AWAY FROM THE ELEPHANTS!!!!

Did you see this post?
Unusual traffic hazard for cyclist

It sounds like the two of you are making excellent progress. Are you still talking about getting Rowan discharged into a neuro rehab facility for the short term?

Does your local community have an adaptive cycling program? Rental/loaner trikes, tandems, Tandem Recumbent Trikes, Bilenky Tandems, Handcycles, etc?

If not, perhaps you could find someone interested in helping you get one started.

No I hadn't ... I'll have to take a look at it.

Rowan will be going to the Rehab Unit as soon as a spot opens up. Meanwhile, he's got 3 different physio teams working with him and I think, starting next week, they'll be less conservative in their approach.

June 1 is the first day of winter here, so it will be a while yet before we will need to look at alternative outdoor cycling options. Even I am considering signing up with Zwift for the winter! But we'll see where he is come spring.

Machka, I read every one of your posts about Rowan and continue to pray.

Thank you everyone! I really do appreciate all the thoughts and prayers.

This past week was a really heavy, exhausting one for me. Long, long days with work, university, meetings, the flu shot, lot of walking (utility), and the hospital.

But it was a good week, because it has been a week of progress.

From an exterior and objective point of view (I'm a doc), Rowan is recovering very fast. Tiredness is strictly normal for both of you and will persist possibly a long time.
I'm absolutely certain that there's no need to search for "adaptative cycling" stuff. He will be back on his regular bike well before your spring down under. If needed,
get ready to buy a pair of winter studded tyres : climate is changing !
all the best for you both
Yves

That sounds great !
I hope his recovery keeps going this fast. .

"One bite at a time"...Dammit, I teared up again! Continued success.

Probably right. I hadn't thought about taking a winter break, so an exercycle may be what is needed.

I wasn't thinking necessarily of long term, but rather short term during recovery, getting outside and moving some. And, of course, there will be quite a bit of de-training that will have to be reversed.

Changes could be rapid, so while one system might be good one week, something entirely different might be needed the next.

All good news.

I don't know if it is of any use to you, but there is a woman in the U.K. recovering from a hemoragic stroke - they rigged up some sort of cycling thing (a desk bike plus some power pedals) so she can ride Zwift from her hospital room.

https://zwiftinsider.com/rachael-elliot-update/

Wishing the two of you all the best.

I am so pleased to hear of the progress! As someone who has had 21 concussions I was/am concerned for you two.
Cheers,
David
Way up North

Following your updates and pleased to see progress. You are both in my thoughts.

Machka:

He knows you are his wife...

And a damned good one at that.

Keep your chin up!

21 concussions?

Professional sports?

It sounds like it is time to make some changes. There is a growing body of research about the damage caused by repeated head trauma in Soccer, American football, and boxing.

Machka,

I'm glad things are progressing, albeit seemingly slowly.

Do you want to give us a brief description of what happened?

Have you sold all the ladders around the house yet?

Great news! Keep in mind every day for Rowan means learning far more than we ever did in a week of school. It's exhausting and will stay so for a long while. Anything you/he can find that is completely familiar to him will be a Godsend for him simply because it means a little time away from the constant barrage of the new. (You will have to read this by Rowan's actions. We have no idea what is new or hard for him. I could ride a bike when I could neither walk straight or tie my shoes.)

And, as always, you know where to find me when things get too much.

Ben

I am a head injury survivor, so I particularly identify with Rowan. Tell him that someone far away, whom he never meant, is rooting for him.

Thanks again to everyone. Your support is really encouraging!


OK, first of all, Rowan is still in Post Traumatic Amnesia ... and he still has a way to go, especially with short-term memories and building up his strength again ... but ...

I had a chat with his Occupational Therapist who told me that in the last 2-3 days, Rowan has taken a leap forward.


Rowan ...

• has started walking. He is walking with support, he's walking a short distance, and he gets tired easily ... but he is up and walking!
  
• is eating and drinking normal meals, and he's hungry.
  
• has dexterity in his hands. I mentioned earlier that he can use a spoon etc. Today we found out he can use a pencil too. Again, they mentioned he'd have to relearn that, but nope ... he's writing.
  
• is able to read. He's probably not reading or writing War & Peace just yet, but it's a start.
  
• is regaining long-term memories in random chunks here and there.
  
• does recognise me now! And recognises/remembers a bunch of other people as well.

He has been handed over from the Neuro Ward Therapist teams to the Rehab Unit Therapist teams, but is still in the Neuro Ward until a spot opens up in Rehab. The minute that happens, he'll go there.


Today, I asked him if he remembered Bikeforums, and he did! I told him about about all your thoughts and prayers ... he was touched and thought that was so kind of you all. He thanks you all.