My Worst fear realized
05-25-10, 08:13 AM
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Dude I'm so sorry. When my wife and I ride all I think about is her getting hurt. I make her ride 15 meters ahead most of the time so that I have a better chance of getting hit by a car if one come from behind.
05-25-10, 08:28 AM
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Great to hear she's (relatively) OK! Count your blessings!
We only get 1 life. We might as well live it.
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05-25-10, 10:51 AM
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That's a real shame, but I'm glad to hear she's going to be ok so it should just be a matter of time until she's back riding again.
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05-25-10, 11:32 AM
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05-25-10, 11:53 AM
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Sorry to hear about your wife, best of luck to you both, speedy recovery for her.
05-25-10, 12:08 PM
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Don't over think it. It's like when a child gets hurt, one or both parents may overreact and make the situation worse. Just let her know you care and move on. Can't go forward looking back. GL
05-25-10, 12:14 PM
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Best wishes for a full and speedy recovery! Sounds like you are both lucky to have each other.
05-25-10, 02:13 PM
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If you saw her crash mentally you are probably in worse shape than she is.
Last year, while out on a ladies ride I was out front on a straight away and a car turned into me and took me out. Broken leg, maybe a minor concussion, two sprained wrists, lots of road rash. Good news, my helmet took out the jerk's windshield. As soon as the doctor signed me off I took off on that ride by myself, went passed the accident site, and was fine with it. However the ladies right behind me that saw me flying through the air that day are still traumatized.
And yes, my husband talked me into taking up biking. Can't imagine how he would have taken that had he been alive.
Last year, while out on a ladies ride I was out front on a straight away and a car turned into me and took me out. Broken leg, maybe a minor concussion, two sprained wrists, lots of road rash. Good news, my helmet took out the jerk's windshield. As soon as the doctor signed me off I took off on that ride by myself, went passed the accident site, and was fine with it. However the ladies right behind me that saw me flying through the air that day are still traumatized.
And yes, my husband talked me into taking up biking. Can't imagine how he would have taken that had he been alive.
05-25-10, 03:43 PM
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"how soon can i ride again?" will soon turn into "aw come on, that's a steal for carbon with those wheels..."
love it. she takes a hell of a spill and is looking forward to getting back on. that's awesome
love it. she takes a hell of a spill and is looking forward to getting back on. that's awesome
05-25-10, 03:44 PM
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Best wishes to your Wife for a speedy recovery. My wife doesn't ride but my daughter does. She nearly took out a dog and herself on our last ride so I know how you feel. Get her back on the horse!
05-25-10, 04:20 PM
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OP, wish your wife a speedy recovery!
05-25-10, 05:32 PM
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Best wishes for a speedy recovery to her.
If it makes you/her feel any better, I got a plate and screws in my lower leg/ankle (and collarbone) and they healed just fine. I don't even know they are there. Best advice: do the physical therapy religously.
...and no, there is no issue at the airport either.
If it makes you/her feel any better, I got a plate and screws in my lower leg/ankle (and collarbone) and they healed just fine. I don't even know they are there. Best advice: do the physical therapy religously.
...and no, there is no issue at the airport either.
regarding the airport thats comforting to know, i was worried about that.
it's funny you say that b/c she keeps asking about it. i keep telling her not to worry about it. she's worried she wont have anything to ride after recovery.
she was trying to ride w/ no hands. i dont think she was going fast enough and just fell. i think in the manner she fell she fell knee first.
i know huh. i was surprised mainly b/c she isnt in to any sports until she found cycling. i didnt realize she loved it as much as i do
05-25-10, 05:39 PM
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If you saw her crash mentally you are probably in worse shape than she is.
Last year, while out on a ladies ride I was out front on a straight away and a car turned into me and took me out. Broken leg, maybe a minor concussion, two sprained wrists, lots of road rash. Good news, my helmet took out the jerk's windshield. As soon as the doctor signed me off I took off on that ride by myself, went passed the accident site, and was fine with it. However the ladies right behind me that saw me flying through the air that day are still traumatized.
And yes, my husband talked me into taking up biking. Can't imagine how he would have taken that had he been alive.
Last year, while out on a ladies ride I was out front on a straight away and a car turned into me and took me out. Broken leg, maybe a minor concussion, two sprained wrists, lots of road rash. Good news, my helmet took out the jerk's windshield. As soon as the doctor signed me off I took off on that ride by myself, went passed the accident site, and was fine with it. However the ladies right behind me that saw me flying through the air that day are still traumatized.
And yes, my husband talked me into taking up biking. Can't imagine how he would have taken that had he been alive.
i havnt looked, i left it at my parents house which was close than our house. my dad said he fixed it up. he said the seat and shifters was scraped up. the chain is skipping. i'll make the necessary adjustments when i have more time
well its really nice to let this out to some people who actually understand.
05-26-10, 03:09 AM
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aw man that's terrible... but look... it was an accident... just because she bikes because of you it is not your fault... don't kick your self down too much... every one falls, some worst than others... just be glad that she's doing fine and is willing to ride with you again... that's so awesome...
anyways... i wish her a quick and healthy recovery... let he know... lol... give her a kiss and a hug for me...
anyways... i wish her a quick and healthy recovery... let he know... lol... give her a kiss and a hug for me...
05-26-10, 03:47 AM
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Sorry to hear about her injury. Her positive attitude and your continued support will help immensely. Good luck on her recovery. Let us know how she's doing.
05-26-10, 06:28 AM
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The plates and screws are still in both places (going on 11 years now). No worries. Doc says the bones are stronger now then before...
05-26-10, 06:46 AM
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May she heal well, and soon.
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05-26-10, 06:51 AM
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There really isn't anything worse than seeing someone you've evangelized for the Cycling gods being offered up on the sacrificial alter of their whimsy.
I took one of my daughters MTBing, only to see her wash out her front wheel and do a major face-plant. It was heartbreaking.
I took one of my daughters MTBing, only to see her wash out her front wheel and do a major face-plant. It was heartbreaking.