He wants to give her a chance to explain everything and make it ok. Its classic co-dependant realationship stuff. I think she knows exactly what she is doing. This is just a game to her. She will shatter him and move on to the next.

hows the kankle? Gettin any better yet?

Maybe the world is going to end via 40mph wind gusts that are supposed to hit here in a few hours. 40 is just a slight breeze compared to a couple of months ago.

Yes... unfortunately Solo is a common piece for her game. When ever there's a lull in the I-need-a-flogging-boy-to-make-myself-feel-relevant department, she calls on him. And he falls for it, and he tells himself that it'll really be different this time. Rinse, repeat.

Clarifying - "game" is the wrong word, I think - I don't think that this is necessarily fun for her. I think that she just feels worthless unless someone is torn up over her. If she can make someone feel really bad, it's a sign that she's really important to them. It's ****ed up, but I wouldn't call it a game.

I had a crazy woman strike up a convo with me this evening. She was pretty good looking, but totally looney toons. I was very close to kickin' it up a notch but decided instead to bid her adieu and went to RedBox and got a crappy movie.

but there aren't real people there. Only Hobbits and Gnomes and the like

was it about the Mayan Apocalypse?

I know you guys are 100% right. This girl is a monster. She has put me through this for the last time. I am looking forward to this last conversation. I assure you it will be the last this time, and your boy Solo will stand his ground. You guys are not telling me anything I didn't already figure out in the last 24hrs. However, I appreciate the confirmation. There is no coming back. Hell, what I should do is sit down, with the other guy, and tell him everything. I wonder if he even has any idea about me. It's sick, I really hope she does get help. I realize now she uses the word "love", and has no real clue what the meaning is. It's sad it really is. It's like she is really out to destroy me. She won't have the satisfaction however. I have had my reservations all along, and I never could truly trust her. I still feel very bad for her. I don't think she will ever be happy, and that makes me sad. Even after all of this. I guess I am just a compassionate person. The good thing is, I am free, and I will never let her do this ever again.

Naw, I've already seen a couple of those. I got Safety Not Guaranteed. Might actually be good for all I know but I'm not holding my breath. As long as it's senseless fun that doesn't overly annoy me I'm sure I'll enjoy it.

12-21-12 The day Solo takes his life back.

Best of luck.

The Mayans knew before you did. :)

Thank you!

I missed the last round of cat pic fun, so

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I can't wait to see how she tries play this. What her approach may be. It's so effing over I don't even care. This is really going to be good motivation to get back on the bike, and weights. I digress to admit this has sucked the life out of my cycling. It will be my new found inspiration. I still hope the confrontation tomorrow doesn't drive her to suicide. If it does however, I cannot take responsibility for her actions any longer.

I'll say this only once. BLOCK HER NUMBER. all of them. if you don't you are being a complete and utter IDIOT.

Herbie is knocking it down on the trainer. Well done!

I think that your Brian's should tell you that she likes to play with you and that is it. Another part of your body is enjoying the friends with benefits status and it is not your heart.

Pcad you have told us you want lose weight and become a better cyclist, great go for it and let us know how it's going in another week or two.

The sad thing is that we are all paying for her food and medical care.

mostly true dat.

I gotta come clean. I have eaten cheese right off the 2-lb loaf like that before.

I did 20.6 miles on the roads in the crappy, crappy rain.

Dang, that's a lot of cheese.

I prefer extra sharp.