When I commute to work I tend to cut through a wide variety of terrain. The problem I have is the current stock 700x32 wheel setup can't take the abuse I put on it. I sometimes cut through areas of different terrain with small sudden drop offs (about the same as a curb) and would like to not have to slow down my momentum so that my rims can constantly take the punishment without going out of true frequently.

So I need some suggestions and ideas

You might want to try Velocity Chukkers, according to one review:

"Bomb proof, this is what the cockroaches will be riding on after the apocalypse."

https://velospace.org/forums/discussi...er-wheels-36h/

What rims are you riding on now, how many spokes?

Wheels

Alloy front hub, Shimano RM30 rear hub; Bontrager Nebula 32-hole alloy rims




Tires

Bontrager Race All-Weather Hard-Case, 700x32c

Get the fattest marathon plus's you can fit once you figure out the wheel situation

It's more about the build quality and less about the components. I'd suggest getting your current wheels rebuilt by a competent professional, or better yet pick up a Park Tools spoke tensionmeter ($50) and learn to do the job yourself. You can use an upside down bike and some zipties as a truing stand. Sheldon Brown's website is a great resource.

If you're bashing over curbs, I'd suggest looking at a 29er. Something like a 47 width. Will your bike fit such a beast?

(Maybe it's time to ride like you're NOT in a Mountain Dew commercial.)

Wheel = rim , spokes and hub,
if you hire one built , you can choose all 3.
rather than have those choices made for you..