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Old 03-06-13 | 11:43 AM
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Pie is integral to this forum. Integral.
It is covered in all conversational circles here.
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Old 03-06-13 | 01:20 PM
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In your opinion. Other people have expressed a different opinion. It is characteristic of those who identify with, and feel comfortable in, a small group that they are dismissive of any suggestion that others might find them insular and clannish. And, of course, describing other opinions as nonsensical is the best possible way to show how much you wish to accommodate different viewpoints.
Well that is your opinion. You are, of course, welcome to your opinion.

I believe, however, that the majority of posters here don"t share that opinion, nor do they have a problem with the current format of the 50+

To call something clannish, cliquish or irrelevant, without any proof or evidence is nonsensical.

Not all "opinions" carry the same weight nor are they entitled to the same consideration.

If I stood on a soapbox and claimed, without proof, that the world is flat...that would be an opinion and people would be entitled to call it nonsense and to call me a nut, or worse.
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Old 03-06-13 | 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Gravity Aided
Pie is integral to this forum. Integral.
Thank you for the explanation...now I can sleep better at night.
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Old 03-06-13 | 01:24 PM
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Well, online communities are just that - communities - and reflect the makeup of the people that have chosen to associate themselves with that community. There will always be inside jokes, and there will be a predominance (at least amongst the active participants in an online community) of activities or orientation or preferences, and this can change over time as active members come and go. These are characteristics of any community, and to suppress them may make the group appear to be less "clannish", but also removes some of it's character as a community. For me, if I were into commuting, or mountain biking or whatever my specialty is would encourage me to seek out like-minded folks within the community, not be put off by the fact that most of those who are active seem to be into something else. That's how communities grow, expand and evolve.

There are some people that are shy, and easily feel excluded from any group that has a collective memory, recognizable personalities and established relationships. There's not much that can be done about that, the important thing is that there is respect for everyone whether they be a noob or an old hand, so that folks aren't actively discouraged from becoming involved. One thing that can happen is that people that have been hanging out together for along time (particularly the guys) can be absolutely merciless in ridiculing and teasing one another ENTIRELY in fun, but a newcomer may not pick that up not knowing the context, but again, that's the nature of a community.

Again, as a new guy around here, I would consider this forum "clannish" if my posts or questions were ignored because no-one "knows" me. That has most definitely NOT been the case.
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Old 03-06-13 | 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted by eja_ bottecchia
Thank you for the explanation...now I can sleep better at night.
More observation than explanation. Please, sleep better at night. Dream of pie. (I've been on a diet of late, as I am actually 50+, and have had to remove desserts. I wax nostalgic.)
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Old 03-06-13 | 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted by eja_ bottecchia

I believe, however, that the majority of posters here don"t share that opinion, nor do they have a problem with the current format of the 50+

To call something clannish, cliquish or irrelevant, without any proof or evidence is nonsensical.
I suggest you ask the mods whether they have evidence of discontent with the current tone of 50+. You may be surprised.
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Old 03-06-13 | 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted by chasm54
I suggest you ask the mods whether they have evidence of discontent with the current tone of 50+. You may be surprised.
Or not.

Until the mods tell us, everything is just uninformed supposition.
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Old 03-06-13 | 02:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Gerryattrick
Or not.

Until the mods tell us, everything is just uninformed supposition.
Yep...that is about right.
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Old 03-06-13 | 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Gravity Aided
More observation than explanation. Please, sleep better at night. Dream of pie. (I've been on a diet of late, as I am actually 50+, and have had to remove desserts. I wax nostalgic.)
I only allow myself pie at Thanksgivings.

I have been hit with a double-whammy.

50+ and diabetes.

I do, however, indulge in the occasional scoop of gelato.

Happy to be able to sleep better.
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Old 03-06-13 | 02:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Gerryattrick
Or not.

Until the mods tell us, everything is just uninformed supposition.
It would be inappropriate if they provided details of who complained about what...
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Old 03-06-13 | 02:40 PM
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Originally Posted by chasm54
I suggest you ask the mods whether they have evidence of discontent with the current tone of 50+. You may be surprised.
Why ask the mods?

You seem to be suggesting that you are privy to information not available to the rest of us.

Why don't you share that information and put this whole "debate" to bed?

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Old 03-06-13 | 02:44 PM
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Originally Posted by AzTallRider
It would be inappropriate if they provided details of who complained about what...
They don't have to name specific users.

It would be enough to give the stats of complaints, number of complaints, how many different people complained, what were they complaining about.
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Old 03-06-13 | 02:51 PM
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Originally Posted by eja_ bottecchia
They don't have to name specific users.

It would be enough to give the stats of complaints, number of complaints, how many different people complained, what were they complaining about.
That may have been a better approach as opposed to changing the format of the forum.

disclaimer: Eja and I are not associated by clique.
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Old 03-06-13 | 02:53 PM
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Originally Posted by eja_ bottecchia
Why ask the mods?

You seem to be suggesting that you are privy to information not available to the rest of us.

Why don't you share that information and put this whole "debate" to bed?

Cheers.
Obviously, not being a mod, I have no specific information. And as AZT has pointed out, mods would be unable to give specific information that betrayed any confidences. However, in correspondence I have been given to understand that there have been complaints and departures. That's the best I can do for you. If any of the mods want to satisfy your curiosity, that's a matter for them.
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Old 03-06-13 | 03:11 PM
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Originally Posted by chasm54
Obviously, not being a mod, I have no specific information. ... However, in correspondence I have been given to understand that there have been complaints and departures.
I have no specific information and

I have been given to understand

With that kind of evidence you couldn't convict a guilty man in a kangaroo court.

chasm, you are obviously stuck on your position, even when the majority of users don't share it.

That is fine and dandy...rage on McDuff if you must. I have better things to do with m time.

I hope that the changes to 50+ do not diminish it. This is a great place to hang out and even though I, like most people here, visit the other forums I still like to come back here.

I have never seen the clannish, cliquish, irrelevant part of 50+ that you see.

Call me an optimist.

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Old 03-06-13 | 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted by eja_ bottecchia
Call me an optimist.

Cheers.
I'll call you complacent, if you like. Generally speaking, those who are comfortable in their assumptions and prejudices are incredulous when they are told that others don't share them.
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Old 03-06-13 | 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted by chasm54
I'll call you complacent, if you like. Generally speaking, those who are comfortable in their assumptions and prejudices are incredulous when they are told that others don't share them.
Another generalisation not backed by any facts from someone who appears "comfortable in their assumptions".

Parachuting out from another thread going round in ever-decreasing circles.
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Old 03-06-13 | 04:30 PM
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2. Too oriented towards Road Cycling technique and "how many miles did you/I ride today". Nothing wrong with these subjects but there is nothing 50+ oriented and if anyone wanted to read about those subjects there are other forums that already devoted to those subject. I tried discussing bike commuting years ago and got nothing but guff in return, the 50+ elders in charge did not deem it a subject of interest.
There is a lot of road cycling here and I think that's because road biking is what most of the 50+ members do. I will start the occasional thread having to do with mountain biking and usually it's well received.

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Old 03-06-13 | 04:41 PM
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There is a lot of road cycling here and I think that's because road biking is want most of the 50+ members do. I will start the occasional thread having to do with mountain biking and usually it's well received.
There have also been commuting threads and even some A&S style dust up threads. I see no problem with 50+ folks being proud of how many mile they ride, especially birthday rides.
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Old 03-06-13 | 04:47 PM
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Pie discussions have died down, but seemed to start with a great ride post noting how good the pie was at mid-ride cycle stop. 50+ often would comment about mid-ride stops and the pie they ate, started dicussions of best pie for cycling, favorite type of pies, etc. Just something to have fun with.

The Tom award began when a 50+ member was brave enough to talk about going clipless and his first tip over. Thus winning a Tom award.
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Old 03-06-13 | 05:01 PM
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I'm just sorry I'm no longer able to participate in pie discussions. Gelato, however...
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Old 03-06-13 | 05:02 PM
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I'm pretty new here and never felt unwelcome or that this was a cliquish sort of board. Doesn't mean someone else can't or doesn't feel that way, but I'm not the most social animal around and if I don't feel a bit like an outcast the place can't be too insular. I can feel like an outcast in room full of family members.


(edit - of course, I do like pie ....)
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Old 03-06-13 | 05:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Gerryattrick
Another generalisation not backed by any facts from someone who appears "comfortable in their assumptions".

Parachuting out from another thread going round in ever-decreasing circles.
Exactly...
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Old 03-06-13 | 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted by jdon
That may have been a better approach as opposed to changing the format of the forum.

disclaimer: Eja and I are not associated by clique.
But we belong to the same tribe, right?
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Old 03-06-13 | 05:10 PM
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I'm just sorry I'm no longer able to participate in pie discussions. Gelato, however...
Ah Gelato...God's special gift to cyclists.

This where I get mine:

https://paciugo.com/
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