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patentcad 12-19-12 02:58 PM


Originally Posted by patentcad (Post 15068239)
I bet he doesn't share our views on gun control.

He doesn't share our views on anything.

patentcad 12-19-12 02:59 PM


Originally Posted by patentcad (Post 15068242)
He doesn't share our views on anything.

And this after you apologized to him in public.

patentcad 12-19-12 02:59 PM


Originally Posted by patentcad (Post 15068244)
And this after you apologized to him in public.

What a massive waste of valuable Diplomatic Kj's that was.

TampaRaleigh 12-19-12 03:03 PM


Originally Posted by TampaRaleigh (Post 15067842)
Is PCad talking to himself?

Yup.


Originally Posted by TampaRaleigh (Post 15067842)
That's what I thought.


WhyFi 12-19-12 03:04 PM


Originally Posted by Soloist Assassin (Post 15068175)
Thanks for being straight with me. I feel like I'll have closure with what I've done, for there is nothing left for me to say. The decision she makes is now on her. The recent discovery which is probably no surprise to any of you. The other guy has been coming around again, and his recent presence in her life no doubt has caused the rift between us. I had my suspicions all along, but it was confirmed today. She says she needs closure between him, and her, but for crying out loud this has been going on for 3mo now. So I had to make this one last stand, and present the ultimatum. I had to make it apparent, that there is no coming back after this. Hell the fact that I am even talking to her still, is a testament of how much I really care. If it was any other girl, I would just cease to talk to her ever again without giving her a choice. She probably doesn't even deserve this last chance. With all these years between us, and everything that has gone on. I just couldn't end it all without a saying what I had to say. It doesn't even hurt anymore. I just feel numb at this point.
I sincerely apologize to all of you growing tired of these updates. I suppose I will make this the last time I speak of any of this. This was a really hard thing for me to go through, but I am glad I did. I also appreciate all the help you all have offered.

Stop being a chump.

rjones28 12-19-12 03:09 PM


Originally Posted by patentcad (Post 15068059)
You can all blow me.

http://weblog.timoregan.com/wp-conte...af-blowers.jpg

gsteinb 12-19-12 03:10 PM

closure means I got the other person to agree things were their fault.

that isn't real world stuff.

rjones28 12-19-12 03:13 PM


Originally Posted by patentcad (Post 15068232)
Only that we hurt RW's feelings. Just because he is an ex-pro racer doesn't mean he's as tough as he comes across. We should go easy on him.


LesterOfPuppets 12-19-12 03:14 PM

GOOD NEWS.

Even though its on msn ive been informed that images like the one in this article may be NSFW.
http://m.now.msn.com/squeezing-breasts-can-stop-cancer

rjones28 12-19-12 03:15 PM


Originally Posted by patentcad (Post 15068239)
I bet he doesn't share our views on gun control.

http://www.inflexwetrust.com/wp-cont...11/IFWT_jk.png

rjones28 12-19-12 03:15 PM


Originally Posted by patentcad (Post 15068242)
He doesn't share our views on anything.

It's not clear that you share your views on anything.

rjones28 12-19-12 03:17 PM


Originally Posted by patentcad (Post 15068244)
And this after you apologized to him in public.

Sing it to him.


Drag 12-19-12 03:19 PM

My Garmin USB Ant+ stick arrived yesterday. Still got lingering flu systems then onto TrainerRoad!

gnome 12-19-12 03:20 PM


Originally Posted by rjones28 (Post 15068317)
It's not clear that you share your views on anything.

I thought ol' fatso shared his views and thoughts with us ad nauseum.

gnome 12-19-12 03:21 PM


Originally Posted by WhyFi (Post 15068265)
Stop being a chump.

just. give. up. let the soloist trainwreck continue.

rjones28 12-19-12 03:23 PM


Originally Posted by gnome (Post 15068335)
I thought ol' fatso shared his views and thoughts with us ad nauseum.

"share your views" = agrees.

I thought they spoke English down there.

runwiththewind 12-19-12 03:24 PM


Originally Posted by Soloist Assassin (Post 15068175)
Thanks for being straight with me. I feel like I'll have closure with what I've done, for there is nothing left for me to say. The decision she makes is now on her. The recent discovery which is probably no surprise to any of you. The other guy has been coming around again, and his recent presence in her life no doubt has caused the rift between us. I had my suspicions all along, but it was confirmed today. She says she needs closure between him, and her, but for crying out loud this has been going on for 3mo now. So I had to make this one last stand, and present the ultimatum. I had to make it apparent, that there is no coming back after this. Hell the fact that I am even talking to her still, is a testament of how much I really care. If it was any other girl, I would just cease to talk to her ever again without giving her a choice. She probably doesn't even deserve this last chance. With all these years between us, and everything that has gone on. I just couldn't end it all without a saying what I had to say. It doesn't even hurt anymore. I just feel numb at this point.
I sincerely apologize to all of you growing tired of these updates. I suppose I will make this the last time I speak of any of this. This was a really hard thing for me to go through, but I am glad I did. I also appreciate all the help you all have offered.



http://bikeforums.net/attachment.php...hmentid=289194

Reality check Solo - If she loved you, she wouldn't have been seeing the other guy - she's burning the candle on both ends and you're still putting your hand on the stove. If I was in love with someone and an ex came around, I'd simply say I'm involved with someone else and please don't call. Don't apologize to us, apologize to yourself. Please spend more time with your dog who is completely devoted & loyal to you. He deserves your time. I don't think your friend can live up to your dog's qualities. You keep saying the decision is hers - WRONG ANSWER - it's your decision - don't be an idiot. As stated before, go out with new friends, no more ex's. Maybe you should write Dr. Phil and get on his show - the audience will be entertained - getting old for me. I'd never trust this chick!!!!

Close the door and keep going! IT IS YOUR DECISION, NOT HERS any longer unless you are masochistic.

http://bikeforums.net/attachment.php...hmentid=289195

P.S. do you really think she was with her girlfriends when she didn't answer your text/phone call??

gnome 12-19-12 03:24 PM


Originally Posted by Soloist Assassin (Post 15068175)
Thanks for being straight with me. I feel like I'll have closure with what I've done, for there is nothing left for me to say. The decision she makes is now on her. The recent discovery which is probably no surprise to any of you. The other guy has been coming around again, and his recent presence in her life no doubt has caused the rift between us. I had my suspicions all along, but it was confirmed today. She says she needs closure between him, and her, but for crying out loud this has been going on for 3mo now. So I had to make this one last stand, and present the ultimatum. I had to make it apparent, that there is no coming back after this. Hell the fact that I am even talking to her still, is a testament of how much I really care. If it was any other girl, I would just cease to talk to her ever again without giving her a choice. She probably doesn't even deserve this last chance. With all these years between us, and everything that has gone on. I just couldn't end it all without a saying what I had to say. It doesn't even hurt anymore. I just feel numb at this point.
I sincerely apologize to all of you growing tired of these updates. I suppose I will make this the last time I speak of any of this. This was a really hard thing for me to go through, but I am glad I did. I also appreciate all the help you all have offered.

I sure hope that you were using protection. especially since you knew/suspected the other guy was still around. as an aside I personally wouldn't put up the there being another guy for 3 months. I would have given her the Him or Me ultimatium about 2 & ¾ months ago.

Soloist Assassin 12-19-12 03:24 PM


Originally Posted by gnome (Post 15068337)
just. give. up. let the soloist trainwreck continue.

I'm done. I've got nothing left.

gnome 12-19-12 03:26 PM


Originally Posted by rjones28 (Post 15068345)
"share your views" = agrees.

I thought they spoke English down there.

we do. I'm an Accountant. I just scraped through English in high school. that was nearly 20 years ago. My english hasn't got any better since then.

TampaRaleigh 12-19-12 03:30 PM


Originally Posted by Soloist Assassin (Post 15068351)
I'm done. I've got nothing left.

http://i920.photobucket.com/albums/a...6665128495.jpg

LowCel 12-19-12 03:32 PM

SA, she has already answered the ultimatum. As soon as she said that she isn't sure or needs closure or whatever with the other guy you should have known that she isn't the one. You have been together off and on for years and she still doesn't know you are the one. End it NOW!!!!

The answer is simple, if she's not sure if it's him or you make it easy on her by taking yourself out of the equation.

gsteinb 12-19-12 03:36 PM

That whole "I'll be fine" schtick is hard to take seriously when one allows themselves to be run through the wringer again and again.

Soloist Assassin 12-19-12 03:37 PM


Originally Posted by runwiththewind (Post 15068348)
http://bikeforums.net/attachment.php...hmentid=289194

Reality check Solo - If she loved you, she wouldn't have been seeing the other guy - she's burning the candle on both ends and you're still putting your hand on the stove. If I was in love with someone and an ex came around, I'd simply say I'm involved with someone else and please don't call. Don't apologize to us, apologize to yourself. Please spend more time with your dog who is completely devoted & loyal to you. He deserves your time. I don't think your friend can live up to your dog's qualities. You keep saying the decision is hers - WRONG ANSWER - it's your decision - don't be an idiot. As stated before, go out with new friends, no more ex's. Maybe you should write Dr. Phil and get on his show - the audience will be entertained - getting old for me. I'd never trust this chick!!!!

Close the door and keep going! IT IS YOUR DECISION, NOT HERS any longer unless you are masochistic.

http://bikeforums.net/attachment.php...hmentid=289195

I know you are right about all of it. The thing is with her low self-esteem, and depression cause all of this. I really don't feel like it is really her fault. She doesn't have a sense of self worth, and therefor doesn't value the feelings of others. On top of that they are constantly seeking approval, and attention from others. Hence a need, or want for more than one lover. I know she doesn't want to do any of this on purpose, it is just a result of her condition. She told me she loves me more than anyone else next to her father. It just sucks, I fell in love with the wrong girl.



Originally Posted by gnome (Post 15068350)
I sure hope that you were using protection. especially since you knew/suspected the other guy was still around. as an aside I personally wouldn't put up the there being another guy for 3 months. I would have given her the Him or Me ultimatium about 2 & ¾ months ago.

I was under the assumption he was gone for good at about week 3. Then these last two weeks it all started to fall apart.

WHOOOSSHHH... 12-19-12 03:39 PM


Originally Posted by patentcad (Post 15067820)
The odd thing is that @ 196, I really don't look fat.

Yes you do. I think we've found your problem...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ur312...yer_detailpage


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